I Know Why I Feel This Way. So Why Am I Still Stuck?
You can name the attachment wound and trace the pattern, and the trigger still fires. Insight and healing are not the same thing, and why that is.
Karen Sussan
LCSW, LMHC
Writing from Karen Sussan, LCSW, LMHC, grouped by subject. Browse every post or pick another category below.
You can name the attachment wound and trace the pattern, and the trigger still fires. Insight and healing are not the same thing, and why that is.
A metaphor from trauma specialist Agnes Wohl, shared with her permission, for what is realistic to expect from attachment and trauma work in therapy.
Thoughtful, self-aware people still say they feel stuck. Often shame is the reason, and it lives in the nervous system rather than in understanding.
Intergenerational trauma often changes shape: neglect in one generation can become overprotection in the next. How EMDR helps unravel the pattern.
Accidents happen, and the effects can linger well past the event. On EMDR’s recent traumatic episode protocol, R-TEP, for something that just happened.
Emotional conflict in the present is often rooted in early attachment ruptures that were never repaired. On talking to the child who is still in you.
Attachment trauma comes from the everyday bond with a caregiver rather than a single event, and the effects can last a lifetime. Signs, and how it heals.
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